How to Get a Girlfriend

OK so you want to know how to get a girlfriend? If so, the first thing to understand is that you’re actually making the effort to develop a skill that 99% of the male population doesn’t have a clue about…so good for you. The first thing to understand in order to date women of your dreams is that knowing how to approach women and how to attract women isn’t some mystical enchanting gift set you’re either born with or not born with.

Instead, it’s a skill which can be learned just like any other skill: through consistent practice and measuring of what’s working and what’s not working. But if you’re too lazy to go through all that painstaking trial and error, here are three tips which will help you to learn how to pick up and date women…

Go where the fish are

This might sound like simple advice when it comes to learning how to pick up women, but most men make the mistake of trying to approach women in places where the competition is really hot. For example: bars, night clubs…all those places where women go and get hit on by 55 guys per minute while they are just trying to hang out with her friends.

Sure, these places might be great to go if you’re looking to get a lot of practice, but you’re not terribly interested in getting a lot of quality results. But if you start approaching women at unsuspecting places: parks, coffee houses, bookstores, libraries etc…you’ll find that there’s a lot less competition and therefore women don’t have their “pick up radar” on high security mode. Try it, and see the results.