How to Get a Girl to Like You

 

OK lets say you are going out on a date and are wondering how to get a girl to like you, what should you do?

Meet at Your Place Where Possible!

The first thing you want to do is to meet at your place if possible.. do this just at the beginning of the date, have her come in for a couple of minutes before you set off.  This makes it much more likely that she will return later in the evening as it will be familiar territory.  When she shows up, invite her in, finish doing what you are doing, then leave within the first 5 minutes.

Should I Give Women Flowers on the First Date?

If done right, women love flowers.. but definitely not too much too soon, and it also depends on how you give it to them..a dozen roses on a first date is too much (avoid large quantities of flowers or bouquets).. however a small rose or flower might be OK.. showing a little interest is better than showing no interest..if in doubt, leave it out for the first date..

Which Restaurant?

Take her to a familiar restaurant rather than a new restaurant at the beginning. Stick to familiar territory, but again, nothing too fancy.  It puts you at an advantage if you know the menu and demonstrate your higher value by showing her what is available..Also if people recognise you, this is a good thing..

Make reservations ahead of time.. You may even want to go to the restaurant in advance to see if you can get the best table..

During the evening, always open doors for your lady.. always. And in particular, car doors!  If she has a coat on, help her remove it or put it on. This is not cheesy, women love this.

At the restaurant, try not to order anything that will be messy.. steak is a great choice.. spaghetti is not.

Be knowledgable about wine’s that the restaurant offers.. and you may even learn a few facts about them in advance.. So then you can explain why you chose them. (go to wine tasting events and learn about wine), this includes possible interesting facts about the place you are taking her.

The worst thing you can do is sit there in silence.. so make sure you have some interesting stories to tell and think of these in advance..saying something is better than saying nothing..

One thing you must do is be kind to the wait staff. Women can infer a lot about a man by watching how you deal with others.. and how you deal with issues that arise.. Never be cruel or freak out over anything..

Who Should pay?

To pay or not to pay..that is the question.. this is tricky and you just have to calibrate.  Generally speaking, if the bill
is small, then it’s best to pay it.. as it is better to show some interest at the beginning than to look cheap..For consecutive meals, you can take turns perhaps.. I don’t recommend you split the bill….some women like to split the bill, whilst other’s like to be pampered.

Have another venue in mind that you can change to.. maybe a lounge bar where you can get a drink.. Changing venues will make it seem like you have spent a longer time together.  It works.

More how to get a girl to like you tips..

Find a balance in all the ideas that I have described here.. They should not come across as weak or supplicating..Always remember not to spend too much time thinking about how to get a girl to like you, because you may come across as too needy.  Get out of your head.

Off course, if you really want to score you points, then cooking for a woman is a great idea, but this generally comes much later in the date.  Although you don’t want to let her know you made it for her.No, no, no… You made it because you like to cook..
If she asks, then say ‘ I’ve been really wanting to try out this new recipe.. I love to cook, and really enjoy having new people around to try my food’.. so I like to invite a new person each time.’
What you don’t want to say is ‘come over and I’ll cook you some dinner’..

Remember, you don’t want to show too much interest. As cooking a woman dinner shows a huge amount of interest, an alternative would be to have a basic appetizer ready such as brushcetta (healthy and easy to make). Invite her round your house, and after around an hour, take out the food, let her know that you made these for you earlier in the day but you havent had a chance to eat them yet. Offer her to try some if she likes, as they are really good for her. This works really well because you are demonstrating your value by showing that you can cook, but at the same time not showing too much interest by cooking for her.
While the food is cooking, give her a tour of your house.. (make sure your house is clean)..It’s never a bad idea to have a sexual massage or sexual techniques book around.. and movies… romantic movies..

To set the mood, small tea light candles around the house are great..they are in-expensive and can be bought from nearly anywhere. Try out different colours.. pink, purple, reds.. are all great.. Don’t put too many on though, and make sure the are not all white..
Have some light music playing in the background.. CD’s such as pure moods.. light jazz..
and when you eat, don’t sit at a table.. (you read that right).. Sit on pillows on the floor or on your bed or on a couch.. because you want to be close to her…and then .. you never know what might happen..

And my final how to get a girl to like you tip, is to go for the kiss!  This should be done during the date and not left till the end.. it becomes awkward and it is hard to escalate from this. Do it early on, so you can move on from it.. Don’t wait for her to make the first move, go for it!