How to Flirt With a Girl
Knowing how to flirt with a girl is a skill that you can learn easily if you know what to look for and how to use it. Flirting, is using romantic overtones in normal conversations with women. It is letting them know you are interested but not too much. It is about making a connection. It is about making sexual innuendos (whilst being careful not to go overboard).
To get good at flirting, you need practise, and the more you do this, the more it becomes second nature to you. However, first you need to see some examples of how to flirt with a girl. And the good news is that you don’t have to just practise on women you like. Practise on all women!
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Knowing how to flirt with a girl requires you to know about something called ‘disqualifiers’.
Disqualifiers are the foundation of flirting and are one of the most powerful tools to have when attempting to attract women. They communicate a lot of things, like:
- Proving to the girl you are not talking to her in order to sleep with her
- That you have standards
- That you are picky.
Plus, having the skills with disqualifiers can demonstrate that you are intelligent, witty and charming.
So what you are trying to convey by what you say is simply that you are not romantically or sexually interested in someone, that you are in some way unavailable to her.
The easiest way to disqualify is to make a list of the traits that you really want a woman you date to have, and traits that you don’t want them to have. This will include physical, mental and social traits. Once you have that list, you disqualify girls who do not appear to have those qualities and tell them why they are not ‘right for you’.
For example, you like blondes, but you happen to be talking to a brunette, you might say ‘You’re so cool, if only I was into brunettes’.
Likewise, if the woman is really into Rock music, but you are into hip hop, you’d say ‘Rock just doesn’t do it for me. Damn, you were so close!’.
How to Flirt With a Girl Examples..
Here are some examples of flirting, being fun and playful with women:
- You could complain how women are always trying to touch you, and you need a bodyguard. Will she be your bodyguard?
- You could tell her that you don’t sleep with women until the 14th date, and that she needs to buy you dinner and show you a good time first.
- Call her out on being too aggressive. Jokingly tell her you only kiss on the first date because you’re tired of being taken advantage of
- If she spills a drink, instead of saying, “it’s okay, don’t worry about it,” it would actually make her feel better if you joked about it. That would truly let her know it’s okay ”Oh my god, I can’t take you anywhere, go wait in the car.”
- Find something about her that you can tease. If it’s her hair colour, maybe her roots are starting to come in: “Hi! You know, I was wondering if the two-tone look was coming back. I was thinking of dying my roots blonde.” And give a very obvious sly smile that says you’re playing with her.
Her first response will be to be taken a little aback, but don’t let that shake you up. Her overall reaction (the one you can’t see) is that she is going to feel attraction and interest for someone that is not coming on to her about her beauty. Some might say that the tease above is crossing the line of being insulting, and that very well may be true. Try to deliver whatever you say with a playful tone and a smile. Make it as humorous as you can to take the edge off (This is the key).
Girls take this as a challenge to their self-image (as do men) and it evokes an interesting dynamic from them. Try it and observe it. Men who treat women like they’re not attracted to them (i.e. are not in a woozy, starry-eyed love spell) have MORE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN. Watch any man who gets results and you’ll see what I mean.
You have to risk a woman’s wrath before you can get her fully engaged in you. If she gets pissed and walks off, she would have been a downer to hang around with anyway. Can you imagine getting hooked into a miserable relationship with a woman totally lacking any form of Humor? I think not.
The problem most guys suffer from is NOT that they don’t know what to say or do. You’re really suffering from a fear of REJECTION. You could say just about ANYTHING to her and it will be better than saying NOTHING and beating your head about it later. You doubt your own abilities. Stop making women so important, and you’ll start to lose this anxiety.