Dating Younger Women
Women are universally attracted to men who are older than them and there is clearly a pattern of older men dating younger women. And this trend isn’t going to go anywhere any time soon. If you look at the average relationship out there, it usually contains a man that is four years older than the woman. Even on a personal level, I have family members that have men ranging from 10 years to over 20 years age gap.
Most younger women feel that guys their age just don’t ‘get it’, and are fascinated by a man who is clearly in control of himself and his environment, and who knows how to treat her, how to make her feel good, mentally, physically and emotionally.
They respect and admire a man for his experiences in life, and may look for approval, advice and input from him. They enjoy being with a guy who is mature and sophisticated, and who knows how to treat her in a way that she responds to.
Younger women have a certain VIBE about them that adds an amazing energy, and youthful atmosphere to your life. As a man, you feel younger and more vital, it’s great. Women that are young, and have just graduated from high school, (let’s assume they are above average in the looks department), smart, and enjoying her freedom and independence, and will usually be attracted to certain traits like higher status, leadership, masculinity, challenge, confidence, among many others.
Dating Younger Women
OK so what are some of the traits you need to have in order to be dating younger women?
- Don’t let other people’s opinion influence you
There are many women out there that find it perfectly normal to date an older man. Find them.
- Be cool man
Don’t stop acting yourself just because you are with a younger woman, don’t act weird in front of her, and remember to relax.
- Tease, make fun, and call her on things that she does or says that are immature.
- LEAD her…rather than following her lead.
If there is a universal quality that women are attracted to, it is men that LEAD.
You be the man, and make the decisions. Don’t try to make her the boss.
- Don’t try it on with her too soon
If you try to make your move too early, it will mostly likely signal to her that you are a ‘perv’, and not to be trusted. Give her room. If she touches you, make fun of it and say ‘keep your hands off the goods’.
- Resist the urge to interfere with her life.
Calling her at work, showing up unexpectedly and embarrassing her are all a big No. If anything, encourage her to have her freedom.
- Don’t chase her, let her chase you.
She has most likely just come away from parents that were controlling and having a structured life. If you are the one calling her all the time, and chasing her, you will most likely find that she will be harder to get hold off. You be the one that is more scarce, and she will chase you.
- Don’t forget to be chivalrous
Things like opening doors, walking on the outside of the curb, pulling out chairs, does make a big impression on women. They love to feel safe and protected.
- Resist the urge to be her stand in ‘dad’
Don’t react to drama. A younger woman will have a lot of drama in her life. Don’t let this get to you, and try to remain calm and collected. Stability of an older man is very attractive. The only time you should give her advice is when she asks in a serious and non emotional tone.
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